If higher taxes, insurance or a hardship have made your mortgage payment too much, you're not alone. A lot of Palm Coast and Flagler Beach homeowners, especially people who bought with low-down FHA loans in 2021 to 2023, now owe close to what their home is worth or more. There are options, and the earlier you look at them, the more you have.


1. Assess Your Situation Honestly

First, find out if you're actually upside down. Values have shifted more in some neighborhoods than others. Pull your latest mortgage statement and check your loan balance. Compare it to a current market value estimate. You can get a free, private home valuation here.

2. Why Many FHA Buyers From 2021–2023 Are Struggling

  • Most FHA loans require just 3.5% down, which means little equity to absorb price dips or cover selling costs.

  • Insurance rates and property taxes in Florida have increased sharply, with policy changes impacting monthly payments.

  • If you bought at/near the market peak, price corrections may mean you owe more than your house’s current value.


3. Options When You Can't Afford The Payment

A. Explore a Short Sale

If you’re upside down and can’t pay, a short sale lets you sell your house for less than you owe—with your lender’s approval. I've negotiated short sales for many local homeowners. They do less damage to your credit than a foreclosure and let you move on sooner.

  • Pros: Less credit damage than foreclosure, more control over the sale, may qualify for relocation assistance.

  • Cons: Lender approval required; not instant. May still owe the difference (deficiency), unless the lender forgives it.

B. Know About Foreclosure

Foreclosure happens if you default on your mortgage and the bank takes the home back. It's usually the worst option for your credit and your ability to buy again.

  • Warning: A foreclosure can drop your credit score by 100+ points, stay on your record for 7 years, and impact your ability to rent or buy in the future.

  • Important: Even if you’ve received a notice of default or sale, there may still be time for a short sale or negotiated solution up to the auction date.

C. Not Upside Down? Just Need to Sell Fast?

You may have more equity than you think. If so, selling could fix the problem and leave you with cash. See what your home is worth.


4. Additional Options: Loan Modification or Refinancing

  • Loan Modification: If you want to stay in your home, some lenders will work with you to adjust the terms (lowering payments, deferring amounts, or extending the loan). Requires hardship documentation.

  • Refinance: If you have equity and fair credit, consider refinancing to a lower rate or longer term.

  • Assistance Programs: Florida’s Homeowner Assistance Fund is closed, so talk with a HUD-approved housing counselor about current mortgage help.


5. How I can help

I'll look at your numbers privately, tell you honestly which option makes sense, and handle the lender if a short sale is the answer. No judgment. This happens to good people all the time.


Let's talk, confidentially

Call or text me at (386) 627-3612, or send me a private message. The sooner we talk, the more options you'll have.



Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes and should not be considered legal or financial advice. Consult a qualified attorney or housing counselor for your specific situation.

David Stanley, REALTOR®

About the Author

David Stanley is a Broker Associate with CENTURY 21 Fine Homes & Estates Realty Exchange and has lived in North Florida for 23 years. A former Flagler Beach Ocean Rescue lifeguard and firefighter, he has closed over $60 million in Palm Coast-area sales.

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